Thru-Hiking the Appalachian Trail with Your Spouse


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Thru-hiking the Appalachian Trail is a very difficult feat within itself, and even more so when taking it on with the same person for 6 months.

Well, this is what some people would have you believe. It could, can, and has been true. Ultimately though, it’s completely up to the couple whether or not they are successful and have a good time.

Imagine that taking on such feat is something that you’ve been dreaming to do for years and there is nothing that can stop you from completing your goal. Then tack on that your spouse, your partner in crime, your best friend, and your most very bestest person in the world feels the same way. It becomes something else entirely. A common goal, shared by two people that are, in essence, one. Failure is not only not an option, it’s simply incomprehensible.

There are some amazing benefits to thru-hiking with the love of your life, but the relationship has to be in good order before doing something as “crazy” as a thru-hike. It does get stressful, and things rarely work out the way you think they will.

 

Here’s a simple checklist to see if you are ready to hike as a couple:

  1. I love my spouse like crazy.
  2. We are a team and can handle anything and everything.
  3. I want to spend every moment with my spouse.

If you answered, “Yes!” to all three, then you can expect the following, at least:

  1. Share the most amazing moments together.
  2. Have someone to talk to, anytime.
  3. Work through hard times, together.
  4. Pull each other up when the other falls (figuratively and literally).
  5. More safety, security, and tranquility.
  6. Go somewhere private and do private things together… *cough* anytime we want. (Something others our age are often envious of.)

These lists are not just for hiking, it applies to every aspect of a marriage.

There will always be difficult moments in your relationship, but you have to set priorities. Is this one disagreement worth more to me than our relationship and our happiness? When you stop to think about what’s going on and why you feel the way you do, you always know the real answer. It’s important to remember this throughout life and especially on trail. You never know what will happen, and you always have to keep your heart open to what’s important: living life, especially with the one you love. Try not to let hard times break down your equanimity. Be strong for yourself and your spouse, for they will be strong for you when you need it most.

Most of all, keep the faith. The foundation of our marriage is built on Christ. We consider ourselves to be blessed everyday with having each other to share our lives.

Two as one. Unstoppable.